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CLEAN BREAK: Investing in a Student Rental with Wendy Embleton
13 January 2022
Wendy Embleton is a Realtor with Exit Realty By Design in Kemptville. She joins Daren today to discuss what considerations should be made when investing in a student rental property. With their kids moving away to go to school, many parents see the value in purchasing a property for their child (and other students) to live in/rent for the duration of their studies. Wendy touches on some key points that should be kept in mind when navigating this type of investment and transition. Should my child be included on the title of the property? How much income should be expected from a rental of this type? Are background checks recommended when renting to students? Wendy and Daren answer these questions and more in this information-packed episode. Contact Wendy at 613-215-0825 or info@exitrealtybydesign.com Our hosts: Daren Givoque and Tina Murray Explore our website to find all of our life transition professionals, blog posts, and clean and simple advice to help guide you through to the other side of any of life’s transitions. Questions about your next steps? Connect with us at info@divorcenet.ca Find us on Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: Divorce and the Holidays
29 December 2021
It is not uncommon to find the holidays stressful, especially when going through a separation. Daren is joined today with Cindy Stibbard, a return guest to the show, to discuss how we can better navigate the holidays even if tensions are high. Keeping the focus on the kids and ensuring that their experience is as low-stress as possible should be priority number one for both separating or divorced parties, and Cindy shares her 7 tips to help co-parents get through the holidays in a healthy way. Being flexible and respecting the boundaries of all parties involved are key factors to making sure that the holidays go smoothly and Cindy and Daren chat about what this looks like in practice.Find Cindy on TikTok or Instagram at @divorceredefined or through her website divorceredefined.ca Our hosts: Daren Givoque and Tina Murray Head over to mycleanbreak.ca to find all of our life transition professionals, blog posts, and clean and simple advice to help guide you through to the other side of any of life’s transitions. Questions about your next steps? Connect with us at info@divorcenet.ca Find us on Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: Avoiding Financial Regret During the Holidays
9 December 2021
Cole Seabrook is a financial advisor with O’Farrell Financial Services Inc. and has been working in the industry since 2018. He and Daren sit down today to discuss why financial planning is important and how to set yourself up for success in the future. The holidays are often a financially stressful time for folks; Cole provides practical and simple strategies to help individuals stay organized and avoid the financial regret that can come around this time. Find out more about who can work with a financial advisor (hint: it’s everyone), the importance of risk management, and how to properly approach setting up a budget and a financial plan you can stick to by listening to the podcast below! Contact Cole on LinkedIn Listen Here! Our hosts: Daren Givoque and Tina Murray (currently on a well-deserved vacation) Head over to mycleanbreak.ca to find all of our life transition professionals, blog posts, and clean and simple advice to help guide you through to the other side of any of life’s transitions. Questions about your next steps? Connect with us at info@divorcenet.ca Find us on Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
(Video) When One side knows more
14 September 2021
Divorce is not always a two-person decision. What happens when one person springs a divorce on the other? Daren Givoque, a Certified Divorce Financial Advisor from O’Farrell Financial and Chair of DivorceNET talks about the need for reliable advice when you need it fast.
Insurance Issues: What to keep in mind in separation or divorce
28 July 2021
Divorce and separation is hard. But, regardless of how you feel emotionally, there is a laundry list of professionals you need to contact when you separate from your spouse. People often forget but your insurance broker is one person you want to notify asap so you don’t run into any insurance issues down the road. Here are a few things that are important to consider about your insurance when going through a separation or divorce. Know who is paying your premiums Like anything in divorce or separation most people don’t want to be connected to their ex, especially with something as sensitive as money. Payment of house insurance premiums can become an issue if the party who is responsible for those payments is not living in the house anymore and decides to stop the paying for the insurance. You could be without insurance and not even know it! Also, you always need to maintain a proper risk address to ensure insurance renewal notices, or the pink slips you get for your car insurance are being sent to the right place. Changing the names on your policy Things get even more complicated if something happens to your home and both names […]
CLEAN BREAK: Insight Mediation – How To Emotionally Get Through Divorce with Melissa Lafreniere
20 July 2021
Daren Givoque and Tina Murray are joined again this week with Melissa Lafreniere. Melissa is a psychotherapist, parent coordinator, and owner of True North Mediation – Child-Focused Divorce Mediation and Consulting. Melissa coaches her clients on communication, how to process how they feel about what is going on, and how to emotionally get through their divorce. This week’s episode focuses on Melissa’s work as a family neutral, and what that means in relation to coaching families through divorce. The three discuss the spectrum of divorce proceedings – from uncontested to adversarial and explain where a mediator would best fit on that spectrum and how, as a family neutral, they advocate for all parties involved to obtain the best resolution possible. Find Melissa Lafreniere at True North Mediation or through the Divorce Net website. Melissa is currently operating remotely, allowing her to expand her reach with her clients. She can be reached at 613-795-8720 Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
Mortgage Matters: How a mortgage specialist can help
14 July 2021
When going through a divorce or separation there are many things to consider, including where you will live after separating from your partner. If you own a home the situation can be complex as you must take into consideration the affordability of the home, children, the equalization process, other debts and of course your own feelings when it comes to where you live. With all this to consider it is a great idea to work with an experienced mortgage specialist to assess your situation and present you with options and advice on how to put yourself in the best position possible that meets your wants and needs. Here are a few key components that a mortgage specialist will help you pull together that are essential in figuring out your living arrangement after a divorce or separation. Check your credit rating It is important to know your credit score and historical information about your credit that can be obtained from a credit bureau such as Equifax or Transunion. This is something that everyone should check at least yearly as there may be errors or things about your credit that you aren’t aware of. If there is a surprise with your credit […]
CLEAN BREAK: Maintaining the Family Unit in Separation and Divorce with Melissa Lafreniere
13 July 2021
Melissa Lafreniere is a psychotherapist, parent coordinator, and owner of True North Mediation – Child-Focused Divorce Mediation and Consulting. She joins our hosts Daren Givoque and Tina Murray to discuss setting yourself up for the best separation possible in relation to co-parenting and maintaining a solid family unit. Ensuring that the kids are well protected during separation proceedings, meeting their needs with age-appropriate answers to the questions, and creating a joint narrative surrounding the separation are a few of the topics that are touched upon in this episode in which our guest outlines some Do’s and Don’t’s when it comes to separations.Find Melissa Lafreniere at True North Mediation or through the Divorce Net website. Melissa is currently operating remotely, allowing her to expand her reach with her clients. Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: The Six Biggest Mistakes in Divorce – Jake Purdy and Zelena van der Leeden Part 2
6 July 2021
Part 2 of the conversation with Jake Purdy and Zelena van der Leeden, certified divorce coaches and the owners of Divorce Management. They continue their discussion with Darren and Tina, elaborating on the six biggest mistakes people will often make when getting divorced. Jake and Zelena focus heavily on educating their community and helping those in need. Through Divorce Management they offer free consultations to those seeking their services and are currently working towards publishing a book to help fill in the gaps that they see present in the current conversation surrounding separation. Find Jake and Zelena at Divorce Management on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn, as well as on their website www.divorcemgt.com Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: Divorce Coaching with Jake Purdy and Zelena van der Leeden Live Part 1/2
29 June 2021
Jake Purdy and Zelena van der Leeden are certified divorce coaches and the owners of Divorce Management. They join Darren and Tina for a 2 part live recording on the ins and outs of divorce coaching, who they are, and how they help their clients. Find out the benefits of including a divorce coach as part of your team, how they are different from therapists, and what they can do to make your separation proceedings go more smoothly. Find Jake and Zelena at Divorce Management on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn, as well as on their website www.divorcemgt.com Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
How to bring up divorce with your spouse
23 June 2021
Bringing up the topic of divorce with your spouse will never be easy. Here are some things to consider that will help make the conversation go more smoothly and set you up for a more manageable divorce process.
CLEAN BREAK: I’ve Got A Mortgage For That! with Tina Murray
22 June 2021
Tina adopts the role of podcast guest today as she and Daren discuss her experience working as a mortgage broker and what she has seen in her over 20 years in the business of helping couples and individuals purchase their homes. Tina emphasizes the difference between what someone qualifies for versus what they can afford, as well as discusses what the new stress test means for those applying for mortgages. Tina can be found on Instagram and on her website, as well as www.divorcenet.ca Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: Divorce Takes A Team with Cindy Stibbard
15 June 2021
Cindy Stibbard joins our hosts Daren and Tina to discuss changing the experience of divorce. Cindy is an online divorce coach based out of Vancouver who helps clients across the country through her company Divorce Redefined. She began her work as a divorce coach after her own divorce experience and aims to help others through the process and alleviate some of the societal stigmas that can seem to be attached. Cindy Stibbard can be contacted via email (Info@divorceredefined.ca) or phone call/text (778-837-1915). She can also be found on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, or her website https://www.divorceredefined.ca Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
Common-law relationships: What happens if it breaks down
9 June 2021
More and more people these days are choosing to live together before marriage. For some couples marriage isn’t a priority or may not even be in their plan at all. This is a very personal choice and every couple is different when it comes to how they want to define their relationship. However, there are some legal ramifications to co-habitation that are important to consider. Here are a few things you should know about common-law relationships and how to protect yourself should you and your partner decide to split. What is a common-law relationship? If you have been living with your partner for over three years or have children with them, you are most likely in a common-law relationship. While many people believe this gives them the same rights to property as being married this is not the case. Under the Family Law Act common-law spouses are not entitled to any property division in the province of Ontario, unlike married spouses who are entitled to half of the assets. How is property divided in a common-law relationship breakdown? No matter how long you have been in the relationship property is divided based on what you brought into the cohabitation. Although […]
CLEAN BREAK: Should I Stay Or Should I Go with Kate Anthony (Facebook Live Recording Part 2)
8 June 2021
Part 2 from Clean Break’s first Facebook Live Recording. Daren Givoque and Tina Murray are joined by Kate Anthony for Clean Break’s first Facebook Live recording. This is a 2 part episode and in part 2 Daren and Tina ask Kate to answer some questions to dig a bit deeper into topics such as how does a relationship evolve after divorce when kids are involved, how to date after a divorce, and is “staying together for the kids” really the best idea? Kate Anthony is a divorce coach with over 10 years of experience and host of her own podcast The Divorce Survival Guide. She helps women by coaching them through the divorce process. Her program Should I Stay Or Should I Go supports women in making tough decisions surrounding their marriages and divorce by working on and analyzing internal factors such as childhood wounding, attachment style, and others. Follow Kate on Instagram or TikTok at @thedivorcesurvivalguide or find out more at www.katenathony.comSubscribe to her podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: Should I Stay Or Should I Go with Kate Anthony (Facebook Live Recording Part 1)
1 June 2021
Part 1 of 2 from Clean Break’s first Facebook Live Recording. Daren Givoque and Tina Murray are joined by Kate Anthony for Clean Break’s first Facebook Live recording. This is a 2 part episode and in part 1 Daren, Tina, and Kate discuss doing the internal work before, during, and after divorce, looking for permission to leave and why most divorces in the US are initiated by women. Kate Anthony is a divorce coach with over 10 years of experience and host of her own podcast The Divorce Survival Guide. She helps women by coaching them through the divorce process. Her programme Should I Stay Or Should I Go supports women in making tough decisions surrounding their marriages and divorce by working on and analyzing internal factors such as childhood wounding, attachment style, and others. Follow Kate on Instagram or TikTok at @thedivorcesurvivalguide or find out more at www.katenathony.comSubscribe to her podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
What is Mediation?
26 May 2021
In many situations, divorcing couples want to avoid court. There are a number of alternative dispute resolution processes to choose from, one of which is mediation. Here are a few answers to common questions people have when considering mediation as an option for their divorce or separation. What is mediation? Mediation is a process where a separating couple meets with a neutral third-party who assists them in their discussions to reach an agreement. Unlike hiring a lawyer to represent you, a mediator does not work for one party or the other and remains completely neutral throughout the process. They do not make any decisions but facilitates discussion and assists both parties in coming to a Separation Agreement. When do you hire a mediator? You may hire a mediator at any time during your separation, even if you are in court. Mediation may not be suitable option if there are concerns regarding mental health issues or abuse. Who can be a mediator? There are individuals who are mediators who may not have training or who may not have experience in family law. For financial issues in particular, you should hire a mediator who has experience in family law and the legislation […]
CLEAN BREAK: Deciding Spousal Support Entitlement with Nathalie Picard
25 May 2021
Hosts Daren Givoque and Tina Murray are joined again this week with Nathalie Picard. Together they discuss how spousal support entitlement is determined, the SSAGs (Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines), and how the rule of 65 works. Nathalie is the co-founder of Alt Divorce and is an experienced family lawyer, accredited mediator and collaborative practitioner. She is a “divorce lawyer with a difference” whose focus is on non-adversarial divorce and keeping her clients out of the courtroom. Unlike traditional divorce, the advanced mediation process aims to find a good outcome for both parties without assigning a winner and a loser. The Alt Divorce Way sees that clients are supported by a team of diverse family professionals, each with a specific skill set and focus, in order to achieve the best outcome for all parties involved – including children. Nathalie Picard is also a member of DivorceNet and can be found on both www.altdivorce.com and www.divorcenet.ca Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: Alternative Divorce – Mediation with Nathalie Picard
18 May 2021
Nathalie Picard joins our cohosts Daren Givoque and Tina Murray to chat about mediation and alternatives to “traditional” divorce. Nathalie is the co-founder of Alt Divorce and is an experienced family lawyer, accredited mediator and collaborative practitioner. She is a “divorce lawyer with a difference” whose focus is on non-adversarial divorce and keeping her clients out of the courtroom. Unlike traditional divorce, the advanced mediation process aims to find a good outcome for both parties without assigning a winner and a loser. The Alt Divorce Way sees that clients are supported by a team of diverse family professionals, each with a specific skill set and focus, in order to achieve the best outcome for all parties involved – including children. Nathalie Picard is also a member of DivorceNet and can be found on both www.altdivorce.com and www.divorcenet.ca Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
4 things no one tells you about divorce
12 May 2021
It is no secret that around 50 per cent of marriages end in divorce. Even though it is quite commonplace it is not something that is talked about openly. When going through the divorce process it is hard to anticipate how it is going to go and how you’re going to feel. Here are a few things that aren’t often talked about when it comes to separation and divorce. Your financial situation will change completely Divorce is costly in many ways. Suddenly your income may change drastically, and you must ensure you can pay your legal bills during the divorce and have enough money to support yourself and possibly your children once the divorce is finalized. There may also be child support and alimony to be considered as well. Whether you are the payer or the payee this needs to be worked into your finances. Your tax bracket may also change because you are now surviving on a single income. Talking to a professional like a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) can help you prepare a plan that will ensure you have all your bases covered during and after the divorce. Your friends may stop calling It is likely that […]
CLEAN BREAK: Separation Is Allowed To Be Hard with Meagan Cumming
11 May 2021
*The audio in this episode is a bit choppy in some areas – our best efforts have been made to accommodate for this* Hosts Daren Givoque and Tina Murray are joined today by guest Meagan Cumming. The conversation focuses on the emotional toll of divorce, and Meagan discusses how regardless of the reason for the separation it is allowed to be hard. The three also hold space for those in abusive relationships, and what “red flags” that some people may not be ready to see in their partners just yet. Meagan Cumming is a registered psychotherapist and CEO of the Kemptville Stress Relief Centre whose clients are predominantly women, and those who have survived sexual assault and intimate partner violence. She and her practice are new members of the Divorce Net team. The Kemptville Stress Relief Centre can be found at www.facebook.com/Kemptvillestressrelief or www.ksrc.caThey can be contacted via email (info@ksrc.ca) or at (613) 701-7574 Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: Life Insurance Policies with Kimberley Smith
4 May 2021
Kimberley Smith has over 20 years of experience as an insurance advisor and has recently become a member of Divorce Net. Today she joins our hosts Tina and Daren to chat about all things life insurance, such as the benefits of joint versus separate life insurance policies for spouses. Find Kimberley on DivorceNet and at www.kimberleysmith.caPhone: 613-818-0278Email: ksmith@kimberleysmith.ca Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
8 things to consider before starting therapy
3 May 2021
Registered psychotherapist Natalie Carriere talks about 8 things you you should know about therapy before choosing a therpist.
The three legal grounds for divorce in Canada
28 April 2021
There are many reasons why people get divorced in Canada. According to a poll by the Bank of Montreal 68 per cent of those surveyed say fighting over money caused dissolution of their marriage. Other reasons include infidelity, falling out of love and domestic abuse. While every couple has their own reasons for deciding to end their relationship there are only three reasons that are legal grounds to get a divorce in Canada. In order to officially split from your partner you must have proof that one of these three things have occurred. You have been living separately from your spouse for one year To use separation as grounds for divorce you must prove that you have been living separately from your spouse for at least one year. Even if you can’t afford to live in separate homes you can still use separation as grounds for divorce if you can prove that you have been living separate lives. This means you are not sharing a room, helping each other with household chores, sharing meals or attending family or social gatherings together. It is more difficult to prove that you are separated while living in the same house, but it is […]
CLEAN BREAK: Where Is The Grey Area Where We Can Come Together? Collaborative Practice with Daren
27 April 2021
The roles are reversed this week as Daren takes on the role of episode guest. Tina interviews him on the subject of collaborative law and what that means for the divorce process. Our hosts discuss how both parties can work together to streamline the divorce proceedings to benefit both cost and time-wise, without trying to tear down the other partner in the process. Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: Horse Therapy for Anxiety and Trauma with Amber Denis
20 April 2021
Amber Denis is the owner of Equi-Soul and is a certified Equine Assisted Personal Development Coach and Facilitator. She sits down with Daren Givoque & Tina Murray to discuss the incredible benefits of equine therapy, and how horses can help us become more self-aware, confident, and trusting. Amber’s work is primarily with women and young teen girls who are struggling with anxiety, trauma, or depression, but she breaks down how equine therapy can be an amazing resource for many people suffering from anything from exasperated feelings of loneliness due to the pandemic to managing the grief of losing a loved one. You can find more information on Amber Denis and her work through her website: www.equi-soul.comContact Amber at equi-soul@outlook.com or 613-880-9660 Looking for your divorce professional?DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person.www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
How to choose your divorce process wisely and save money
14 April 2021
There are many decisions that need to be made once a couple has decided to end their relationship. Contrary to popular belief there several options to choose from for couples that want to stay out of court and resolve things as smoothly and cost-effectively as possible. Here are a few of the available options for divorce processes and some tips about how to decide which one would work best for you. Uncontested Divorce An uncontested divorce works best when both parties are getting along and generally want the best for each other. This process relies on both spouses working together to agree on the terms of the divorce. In an uncontested divorce both parties file separate paperwork with the court before amicably parting ways. Because things like division of assets and child support are decided on at the outset there is no need for hearings, settlement negotiations or other court procedures. If things are amicable an uncontested divorce is a great option because it allows the couple to end things congenially and with dignity. Mediation Hiring a mediator is a good option when both parties are frustrated and hurt but are still willing to work together to reach a settlement […]
CLEAN BREAK: What Are You Missing When It Comes To Taxes with Cathy Sheppard
13 April 2021
Cathy Sheppard of Sheppard & Associates Ltd. returns to Clean Break alongside Daren & Tina to provide insight into the world of taxes and the Canada Revenue Agency. When is the recommended time to inform the CRA that you are separating and why? Can you still share a house with your ex-partner once you are divorced? Who should claim the child tax benefit? Cathy answers these questions and more! You can reach Cathy Sheppard through her website (https://www.sheppardandassociates.ca/). Looking for your divorce professional?DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person.www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
22 Things to talk to about with you Significant Other
7 April 2021
Written by Divorce Professional Pamela George Did you know that it costs approximately $243,660 (CAD) to raise a child to age 18 (excluding inflation costs)? Now this is the kind of thing couples need to chat about. If you’re in a serious relationship or engaged and are avoiding the money conversation because you’re afraid of starting an argument, please know that you’re not alone. In fact, this is quite common. But, that doesn’t make it okay! Money and your money compatibility (or lack thereof) can play a huge role in your relationship. If you’re not openly engaging in conversations like this that make you a little uncomfortable, that discomfort is going to grow and come out in other ways down the line. I honestly believe every couple should attend financial counselling before they get married to ensure they’re aligned in their goals and values, and are aware of each other’s financial circumstances. However, if you’re looking to start this conversation on your own, I’ve created a list of the top 22 things that couples fight about when they come to me for financial counselling. Please know that these conversations will likely be difficult at the start but it does get easier. In general I’d recommend you start […]
Divorce Straight Talk with LMR Lawyers
31 March 2021
The Family Law Group at LMR Lawyers are proud to partner with Divorce Straight Talk to present seminars to the public about divorce and separation. The seminars will be presented by Zoom and are free to attend. It is necessary to register for the sessions however. The next sessions are scheduled on: March 22 at 7 PM April 20 at 12 PM (noon) They are scheduled for ninety minutes. The seminar will feature a Financial Professional, a Family Professional, a Mortgage Broker and a Family Law Lawyer. Each of the panelists will provide general information about divorce and separation from their own professional perspective. Several of the panelists are also trained mediators and Collaborative Professionals. There will be a presentation from each of the specialists and there will be an opportunity to ask questions of the panelists. The seminar is open to anyone. However, the panelists are all trained and licensed in the Province of Ontario and they all work in the Ottawa area. If you reside in Ontario and are thinking about separation or divorce, or if you are already separated from your spouse, or if you know someone that is or may be separated or divorced, […]
5 tips for dating post-divorce
24 March 2021
The idea of dating after divorce can seem very daunting. It may be years since you have been on a date and you could be wondering where to start. Depending on how long you have been single you may be feeling the pressure from family and friends to “get back out there”. However, there are some important things to consider upon re-entering the dating world, especially if your goal is to meet a new life partner. Make sure you are ready It is very important to be honest with yourself when it comes to deciding whether you are ready to start dating. Are you ready to take the lessons you learned from your past relationship and apply them to a new one? Or are the memories still too painful and fresh? The amount of time it takes to heal from a divorce varies for everyone and it is important to make sure you are ready before you “test the waters” and start dating. If you are still feeling emotionally vulnerable from your divorce it may be difficult to make good choices in a new relationship. Know your values As part of the healing process, getting to know yourself again is […]
Having separate bank accounts doesn’t mean you don’t love your partner
17 March 2021
Written by Divorce Professional Pamela George Do you have negative connotations associated with the idea of keeping separate accounts to manage your money in a relationship? Society promotes a lot of misconceptions regarding how you should manage your finances when in a relationship. Unfortunately, that means many people feel pressured to conform to certain “rules” that promise to lead to a “happier relationship.” Let me know if any of these sound familiar: If you don’t combine all of your finances as one, you don’t love your partner.If you don’t share a bank account, you don’t trust your partner.Separate accounts mean that one person does all the work or is held less accountable than another.If you keep separate accounts, you’re more like roommates than partners. These viewpoints simply aren’t true! Keeping a separate bank account or having your finances separate from your partner’s finances can be a great way to maintain control and autonomy over your finances. This helps to avoid what I see as a big problem with the couples who come to me – they don’t lose themselves and their dreams. Keeping finances separate or having just one account that is yours alone keeps my clients feeling like they […]
3 ways to take care of yourself during divorce or separation
10 March 2021
Life is busy and keeping on top of everything can be difficult at the best of times. Carving out time for self-care is important for everyone but it is even more essential when going through a major life change like separation or divorce. Here are three ways you can take care of yourself to make sure you don’t end up in mental and physical burn out. Give yourself time Many people going through separation or divorce want to get it over with. It can be a painful process and it may seem very attractive to make quick decisions to get though the process as quickly as possible. On the other hand, some people feel paralyzed with anxiety and fear when it comes to making any decision regarding their separation because they feel immense pressure to make the best decision for themselves and their children. The key here is to give yourself time. Allow yourself the time to process your emotions and get in touch with the right professionals who will help guide you through the process. Rushing through it or feeling bad because you can’t seem to make any decisions will not help you in the long run. Be kind […]
What is Arbitration?
3 March 2021
Staying out of court during the separation process is ideal for a lot of couples. Hiring a mediator is often a great way to have someone help you resolve your differences. Unfortunately, in some cases, this is not enough and a third-party needs to be called in to make a decision; This is where arbitration comes in. Arbitration can be used to resolve a single issue or several outstanding issues. Here are a few commonly asked questions about arbitration and how it works in the divorce process. What is Arbitration? Arbitration is a process that is very similar to court. It is helpful in resolving issues on which the couple has reached an impasse and can’t resolve by agreement. At this point the parties select an arbitrator to decide on the outstanding legal issues. Arbitrators are often senior lawyers or retired judges. How does it work? The process is relatively formal and similar to court, with parties making opening statements, calling witnesses, presenting evidence and giving closing statements. The kind of evidence required will vary with each case but may involve affidavit (written) evidence or oral testimony. After hearing the evidence and submissions the arbitrator writes a decision, called an […]
How to avoid 3 common mistakes after divorce
10 February 2021
After the upheaval of your divorce, you have the opportunity for a fresh start and to explore your answer to the question “Now what?”. The challenge is avoiding things that can interfere with your plans for the future. Here are three common pitfalls of recently divorced people and how to avoid them. Allowing the advice of others to influence the choices you make It is natural to look for support from family and friends when you are going through a divorce. With so many decisions to be made it’s helpful to have the advice of an expert or to ask for a second opinion, especially when the decision has long-term consequences. But as you make plans for your future, you may find yourself receiving unsolicited advice. With the best of intentions, friends and family are often eager to give you advice on what they believe is best for you. Remember, their advice is based on their perspective on life and their experience. It may not take into account your vision for your life or include any new ideas and plans that may be percolating in your mind. If the advice doesn’t feel right or you are leaning towards taking the […]
What’s your money talk excuse?
5 February 2021
Written by Divorce Professional Pamela George “I have a headache”“I’m too tired”“I’m too busy”“I don’t want to right now” No, I’m not talking about sex, at least not directly. Do you say those words to your partner when they ask to talk to you about money or when they ask you to sit with them while they pay some bills? If you do, your partner might be feeling rejected, unloved, unappreciated, unheard or lonely, just like if you had said those words when your partner initiated sex. As a Financial Counsellor, I see the connection between sex and money in my practice, almost every day. Just like how sex is not only about the physical, so too, money is not only about the numbers. Both are seeped with emotions and vulnerability. If you are part of a couple and you are not talking about money because you are afraid of starting an argument, please know, you are not alone. In fact, this is quite common. What I have found works, is to start small. Set aside 15 minutes a month to either pay a bill or two or to open up some bills and see what needs to be paid. […]
CLEAN BREAK: Insurance Policies and Divorce
3 February 2021
Sharyn Hillier from Hill Life Financial joins Daren & Tina on the Clean Break Podcast to talk about what’s important to you, advise on navigating divorce and insurance, taking care of the kids and who really owns the policy during a divorce. Find Sharyn on DivorceNet and at www.hilllife.ca Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: Financial adjustments during a pandemic
27 January 2021
Pamela George from Pamela George Financial Literacy sits down with Daren Givoque & Tina Murray about the struggles of sole proprietorship during the beginning of the pandemic, dipping into her own emergency fund, taking her own advise, seeing how her client’s needs have changed and battling her own mental health struggles as we manage Covid-19. Pamela is finding herself helping more and more clients navigating divorce and she’s here to help you. Find Pamela at https://pamelageorgefinancialliteracy.com/ or here on DivorceNet to connect for your own financial needs. Looking for your divorce professional?DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person.www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
Developing mental toughness during divorce
27 January 2021
We all have a dialogue that plays in our head. During stressful times this dialogue can either get in the way or help you cope. The problem for most of us is that our inner voice can be highly critical. And this can be exacerbated when you’re going through a particularly emotional situation. A divorce can trigger a whole gamut of emotions: Grief, shame, sadness, regret and fear are all common when dealing with a marital breakdown. More positive emotions like relief may also be a part of your experience. No emotion is off the table. When going through a divorce you’ll have to make a lot of important decisions that will shape your new life. This can be extremely difficult when you’re dealing with all those emotions. Your inner dialogue may be contributing to your distress as it overwhelms you with thoughts of failure and self-doubt. It’s important to realize that you’re not alone in this experience and there is something you can do about it. You’re not alone Everyone deals with anxiety and self-doubt. Even top athletes (who have won world championships and Olympic medals) talk about the little voice inside their head that undermines them as they […]
CLEAN BREAK: Helping Families through divorce with Jennifer Reynolds
20 January 2021
Jennifer Reynolds from Fresh Legal is our guest this week on the DivorceNet podcast, Clean Break, with hosts Daren Givoque and Tina Murray!We talk about working with families through a divorce without stepping into the courtroom, with mediation and collaborative law. Jennifer has been working in family law for 12 years and opened her law firm, Fresh Legal, 6 years ago to help families through the divorce process and to help them work together and guide them to their next steps in the process. You can find Jennifer and her team, and more information at www.freshlegal.ca Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: Family Law with Tanya Parker Wallace
13 January 2021
The discussion dives right into litigation versus mediation and collaborative law, and how it all works with Tanya from Parker Wallace Family Law. Daren and Tina loved the discussion about family law with Tanya, talking about the differences and how it would benefit the client and types of situations. We talk cost, lawyers and more! Find Tanya at https://www.pwfamilylaw.ca/ Hosts: Daren Givoque and Tina Murray Questions about your next steps? Connect with us at info@divorcenet.ca Connect with us on Social MediaFacebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
Traveling with kids after divorce
13 January 2021
There are a lot of things to learn/re-learn about life after divorce or separation. If you have kids, new routines need to be created and custody rights need to be observed. Traveling with your children after you have separated from their other parent is something that needs your attention as it is much more complicated now that you are no longer with your spouse. Here are some things to keep in mind if you want to travel with your kids post-separation. Plan in advance Make sure to plan out when you want to travel with your children because you must ensure there is consent to travel from the other parent. You must consider the timing and whether the trip interferes with their other parent’s scheduled time with the children. You will also want to check if there are any travel restrictions or warnings for your planned destination and alert the other parent if there are. If there is a joint custody arrangement, the other parent may not agree for the child(ren) to go to a place that has travel restrictions. Review your Separation Agreement or Parenting Plan Make sure you know what your Separation Agreement or Parenting Plan says when […]
CLEAN BREAK: What DivorceNet means to us
23 December 2020
The DivorceNet team sits down and chats candidly about what the group really means to them, their favourite moments over the years and what they look forward to with the group following the difficult year of 2020. Join us here on www.DivorceNet.ca and all our social media to find out the latest information, find your divorce professional and more! Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
3 signs your marriage may not be working
23 December 2020
It is not unusual for people to hide their heads in the sand when it comes to the reality of a failed relationship. Deciding when to get a divorce is not easy and comes with significant heartbreak and emotional upheaval, no matter how unhappy the marriage has become. It is difficult for many people to realize when it is time to pull the plug, especially if they have been in an unhappy marriage for a long time. Here are some of the tell-tale signs that getting a divorce may be the best option for you and your partner. No communication Communication is a key component to any relationship. It ensures that you grow together as a couple rather than apart. While it is normal for communication in a relationship to go through peaks and valleys it becomes a problem if you or your spouse are not willing to work things out when you are going through a tough time. Often one spouse is present, while the other is starting to pull away and is not willing to talk it out either one on one or in therapy. It takes effort from both parties to move on from a communication breakdown […]
CLEAN BREAK: Parenting Mediation with Melissa Lafreniere
16 December 2020
On this week’s Clean Break Episode Daren & Tina chat with Melissa Lafreniere, Psychotherapist and Mediator. Melissa also works in collaborative law with families with Alt Divorce. Her practice focuses on the children and how to support them through a separation or divorce. If you are interested in knowing more about Melissa and her practice, you can find her at:www.facebook.com/altdivorcewww.altdivorce.com HostsDaren Givoque, CDFATina Murray, Mortgage Agent Find your divorce professional here on DivorceNet.ca
CLEAN BREAK: Navigating Selling Through Separation
9 December 2020
Author, Adam Mills, sits down with Clean Break hosts Daren Givoque and Tina Murray to talk about navigating the hot market as a realtor, selling your home or buying in this kind of market and talking candidly about his new book, “Navigating Selling Through Separation“. What options do you have in front of you?How assets can be divided in Ontario Contact Adam and his realtor team at https://www.ottawaishome.com/ Are you looking for a divorce professional? Find them here on www.divorcenet.ca
Debt income ratios and getting a mortgage
18 November 2020
Buying a house is not easy and the complex mortgage industry doesn’t make it any easier. There are few factors that go into whether a bank or private lender will give you a mortgage. Some people think that as long as you have a good income getting a mortgage will be easy, but that is not necessarily the case. Banks and other lenders rely heavily on debt servicing ratios to decide whether a person is eligible for a mortgage and how much they will lend. Gross Debt Servicing and Total Debt Servicing are calculated with every mortgage application to decide how much the lender is willing to finance. What is Gross Debt Servicing? Gross Debt Servicing (GDS) is a key debt servicing ratio that lenders look at to see whether they will finance a mortgage on a property. The GDS is calculated by adding up all your housing related costs (mortgage agents call this PITH, principal, interest, taxes, heat) and dividing it by your net taxable income. In Ontario your PITH generally cannot represent more than 39 per cent of your income. What is Total Debt Servicing? Total Debt Servicing (TDS) is another important debt servicing ratio that lenders look […]
Five inexpensive ways to get your house ready to sell
4 November 2020
Selling your house can be overwhelming at the best of times. Putting your family home on the market because of a separation or divorce is another can of worms. During the divorce process tensions are running high and stress can be at it’s max. Getting a good price for the family home is often integral in the divorce settlement so that both parties can move on comfortably. During a divorce there isn’t a lot of money to throw around either, as the divorce itself can be quite expensive. Here are a few tips and tricks that can make your house stand out, without breaking the bank. Declutter your home This is something you will want to do when you move anyway, so why not do it ahead of time? People looking at your house want to be able to imagine their stuff in the home and having your personal items all over the house can get in the way of that. Not only do you want to get rid of any unnecessary items you also want to make sure to de-personalize the home. Put family photos away, take your name off the mailbox, get rid of or stow anything that […]
Fair is Not Always Equal: Why you should talk to a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst
28 October 2020
When a person or couple starts looking into divorce it is hard to know where to turn. It is commonplace to have a lawyer or mediator handle the legal aspects of the divorce and ensure that the division of assets are equitable and fair. While divorce lawyers and mediators are excellent at applying the law, understanding people’s rights and negotiating with other lawyers in a legal framework, they don’t specialize in the intricacies of dividing assets. In many cases finding a situation that is fair to both parties may not be as simple as dividing the assets 50/50. This is where the Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) comes in. A CDFA provides clarity, accuracy and equity through a collaborative divorce process. They are experts in all the financial aspects of divorce. A CDFA’s role is to help divorcing couples address the financial issues of divorce using data to help achieve equitable settlements. They are well versed in analyzing financial records and investments and identifying possible tax consequences that come along with liquidating assets. A CDFA will work with the divorcing individual or couple to create a comprehensive financial plan. This report outlines all the assets involved in the divorce, taking […]
How to budget for a divorce
14 October 2020
Budgets are important no matter what life stage you are at. Any financial adviser, accountant or even your own mother will tell you that having an idea about what your expenses are and where your money is going is imperative to ensuring financial security. When it comes to divorce, sitting down and figuring out how separating from your partner will affect your life financially is just as important. The reality is that very few people are better off financially after a divorce. It may not be an easy task, but taking a look at the following items will ensure that you are not stuck sitting at your kitchen table with a bunch of bills you can’t pay. The first thing you need to do if you are contemplating divorce is to start tracking your spending as a family unit as well as your household income. How much do you and your partner bring into the house and how much of it is used to pay essential bills like water and electricity? How much do you spend on groceries? What are your mortgage payments? If you have kids, what expenses are you looking at when it comes to taking care of […]
Cohabitation agreements during the COVID-19 pandemic
7 October 2020
The COVID-19 pandemic has completely changed how we live and work. With the stay at home order in late March, many couples chose to self-isolate together, rather than spending months apart. For couples who have never lived together this comes with a variety of complications. People that chose to move in together quickly, may not have thought about some of the longer-term implications of cohabitation. In Ontario, the laws of property equalization do not apply to those who are living together, only married couples. This means that should your living arrangements end, and you are forced to divide up assets, there is not law saying that they must be divided equally. This can be even more complicated of one party ends up being financially dependent on the other. Ontario’s Family Law Act states that for spousal support to apply after a relationship ends, a couple must be cohabitating for at least three years, or have a relationship of some permanence and a child. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t move in with your significant other. In fact, it is quite common for couples to live together before getting married. However, it is always a good idea to consider a cohabitation agreement […]
Tax Tips: What you need to know about divorce and taxes
23 September 2020
Nothing is certain in life except death and taxes. Nothing is more true, especially when navigating the complex and emotionally charged world of divorce. There are many tax implications that you need to watch out for both during the equalization process and after you and your partner have separated. Here are a few things you need to know to make taxation work for you and make sure you reach the best settlement possible for your situation. Consider the value of each asset after taxes This may be the most important thing you do in your divorce settlement. When you are looking at equalization it is important to consider the value of each asset AFTER taxes because assets will be taxed differently. For example, imagine you and your spouse own a house that is worth $400,000. Your partner also has non-registered investments totaling $100,000 and an RRSP that is worth $300,000. That comes to a total of $800,000 of which you are entitled to $400,000, or half. In this case the investments will be taxed at a rate of 20% while the RRSP will be taxed at a rate of 40%, leaving you with only $260,000 of the $400,000 once the […]
Real Estate and Divorce: Buying, Selling, Renting
9 September 2020
There are many things to consider when going through a divorce. It is a major life change that is emotionally charged, making decisions about the future even more difficult. One of the most important things to look at during a separation or divorce is where you are going to live once you are split from your partner. There is often a home involved and what you are going to do with the home you built together needs to be decided. The decision about where to live and what to do with your home may seem daunting. But, considering the following will help you make the decision that is best for you and your family. Consider the value of your house When going through a divorce putting a value on all your assets is important. Often the family home is the biggest asset you have together and therefore you need to figure out how much it is worth. This will also help you decide whether to sell the house, or how it can be traded for something else in the equalization process. Mortgages on a single income Real estate can look a lot different when you are coming at it from […]
What happens to an RESP in a divorce?
26 August 2020
Dividing assets can be a tricky business when it comes to divorce. Throwing a savings account that affects your child’s future into the mix can make things even more complicated. RESPs are a great way to save for your child’s education but deciding what to do with them if you and your partner separate is no walk in the park. Here are a few things to consider about RESPs when going through a divorce. What is an RESP? A Registered Education Savings Plan (RESP) is one way that a lot of Canadian parents save for their children’s post-secondary education. It is an investment account that allows parents to save money while receiving grants and incentives from the federal and some provincial governments. In an RESP money can grow on a tax-deferred basis and the government will contribute up to $7200 per child (beneficiary) depending on the amount of your contributions. The money in an RESP belongs to the subscriber, not the beneficiary Even though the funds are there to be given to the children, money in an RESP is the property of the subscriber not the beneficiary. Depending on how an RESP is set up, the account could either have […]
Prenups in Ontario: What you need to know
12 August 2020
Talking about money is not an easy thing when it comes to relationships. It becomes especially complicated when two people have different ideas about money or one has more than the other. When a couple is ready to take the next step by getting married or moving in together the topic of a prenup may come up. This can be a difficult conversation to have, but a necessary one if you have valuable assets that you would like to protect. Here are a few things to consider when broaching a prenuptial agreement. In Ontario law a prenup is called a domestic contract While you may know the word prenup from TV and Hollywood movies the term is an American one. In Canada, and Ontario in particular, prenups are called domestic contracts. Domestic contracts cover both marriage contacts and cohabitation agreements and act in a similar way to the American prenup. Both are used to organize a couple’s finances, clarify their rights and responsibilities in relation to one another and govern the division of property should they decide to part ways. Domestic contracts are used for more than just protection of assets Although one of the main purposes for a domestic […]
4 things mortgage brokers need to renegotiate a mortgage
12 August 2020
A home is usually the biggest asset a couple has to consider when going through a divorce. Navigating the complex world of mortgages is not an easy task and knowing how to deal with a home when it comes to reaching an equitable settlement can be complex. Mortgage brokers are your best ally when it comes to dealing with the intricacies of property ownership, divorce and figuring out the best option when it comes to your home. Here are 4 things a mortgage broker will need to complete this process. A written and executed separation agreement signed by both parties A separation agreement will break down what the division of assets will be. It will also lay out any ongoing financial responsibilities for either parties like child or spousal support. This has to be taken into consideration when it comes to the affordability of the mortgage for the spouse that is keeping the house. The separation needs to be finalized meaning that it must be the final document that has been agreed upon by both parties. Separation agreements that are in the process of being negotiated are of no use to a mortgage broker as it will not deliver an […]
Money Matters: How to keep financial issues from ruining a relationship
29 July 2020
Financial problems are the leading cause of relationship breakdown. In fact, a Bank of Montreal poll found that fighting over money was the top reason for divorce among Canadians, even ahead of infidelity. A recent BDO Canada poll found that many Canadians are hiding financial secrets from their partners. In a world that survives on dual income households, it has never been more important for Canadians to be open and honest about their finances. 3 in 5 Canadians wish they could change their partner’s financial habits The BDO poll found that most Canadians say there’s something about their partner’s finances they wish they could change. Overspending, not saving and not keeping track of spending were the most common complaints. Unfortunately, many might not be communicating these concerns—the poll found that 36 per cent of Canadians rarely or never talk about money with their partner. Only 70 per cent say their partner knows everything about their finances, while the rest are keeping secrets. Women seem more worried about their partner’s savings Another stat that stood out in the poll: 42 per cent of women wish their partner would save more for retirement, compared to 29 per cent of men. Women are […]
How to buy a new house after separation or divorce
13 July 2020
One of the key steps in the divorce process is finding a new place to live. Once you and your partner have decided to split you will probably be wanting to find your own place sooner rather than later. If you are already a homeowner, you might be thinking about trying to stay in the housing market and buying something new. While this is a great idea in principle, there is a very important document you need to have on hand before going out in search of a new home. A separation agreement. As a mortgage agent I can’t stress the importance of a finalized separation agreement enough. Without one it will be very difficult for you to get a mortgage for a new home. The separation agreement will outline things like what is being done with the matrimonial home, child support and alimony. All these will directly affect your ability to qualify for a mortgage, regardless of whether you go with one of the “big 5” banks or another mortgage company. Matrimonial home If you already own a home with your ex, the separation agreement will outline whether the house is going to be sold or whether it is […]
CLEAN BREAK: Self Defence is for EVERYONE
3 June 2020
Beth and Rob are back on the Clean Break Podcast with hosts Daren & Tina to talk about Stress Safe Self Defence course and how this program is for everyone. Beth and Rob get real about how this program can change a person, help them feel empowered and safe and go deep into defending yourself as a male in the world. Tune in to hear how this program can help you. Find the Street Safe Self Defence at https://streetsafeselfdefence.com/ Contact today at 613-340-8002 Looking for your divorce professional? DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person. www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: Divorce Proceedings during COVID
27 May 2020
Cynthia Squire from Lister- Beaupré Lawyers is here on the podcast with Daren & Tina to discuss what’s happening with courtrooms, divorce cases and more as we continue through COVID and navigate what’s open and not during the legal process. You can reach Cynthia Squire at Lister-Beaupré Lawyers at:http://www.listerlawyers.com/team/cynthia/ | 613-234-2500 | cynthia@listerlawyers.comhttps://www.mycleanbreak.ca/item/lister-beaupre-lawyers/ Find your divorce professional here on www.divorcenet.caCheck out our socials: Facebook | LinkedIn | Instagram
CLEAN BREAK: What is S.E.N.A.T.O.R.S. and how it can help with stress!
20 May 2020
Cindy Little from Health 2 Wealth is here on the Clean Break Podcast to talk with Daren & Tina about stress management and tools to help reduce your stress by going over her ‘go-to’ tool, SENATORS. We talk about sleep, tryptophan, and so much more! Tune in to hear what SENATORS stands for and how all these tools can help bring your stress levels down, management the stress levels and get you through this crisis. Find Cindy on Facebook or on her website at http://health2wealth.ca/ Find your Divorce Professional here on DivorceNet.caFacebook | LinkedIn | Instagram
CLEAN BREAK: Collaborative Law with Jim Jeffcott
13 May 2020
Jim Jeffcott from Low Murchison Radnoff LLP joins Tina & Daren today to discuss collaborative law, how it can be cost-effective for the divorcing parties, helping them communicate together (whether they agree or not) and work outside of the courtroom. Find Jim on here on DivorceNet https://www.mycleanbreak.ca/item/jim-jeffcott/ Looking for your divorce professional?DivorceNet is here to guide you to the right person.www.divorcenet.ca Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
SENATORS – the acronym you need for managing your stress
13 May 2020
When it comes to reducing stress, there isn’t one solution. Many factors come into play. Here is an acronym that explains some of the things you can work on to reduce your stress. SENATORS S-Sleep The most restorative sleep is between the hours of 10pm and 2AM. Your adrenal glands get the best repair between these hours. Your adrenal glands control adrenaline and cortisol, regulation of metabolism and immune system suppression, blood pressure regulation and balance of sex hormones. Aiming for 5-8 hours of good deep sleep is recommended. Avoid cell phones and other electronics near your bed and, if possible, have them 6 feet away. Avoiding TV and computers at least one hour before bed is optimal to allow your alertness to calm down. E-Exercise Ideally you want to work on the 3 areas of fitness: cardio, strength, and flexibility. All can be done either daily or at least 3 times a week. Home exercises, walking, body weight exercises like squats, pushups, lunges and abdominal exercises and holding stretches for at least 30 seconds each are all great ways to get your body moving. One set of 10-15 repetitions per exercise is a great start. A total body workout […]
How COVID-19 may affect the value of your business
7 May 2020
I recently had the opportunity to attend a Webinar hosted by the American Society of Appraisers (ASA) that discussed the impact COVID-19 is having on business valuations. The panelists included ASA’s, ABV’s, CBV’s and CFA’s and one of the most discussed topics was the impact the valuation date can have on business valuations, due to the uncertainty caused by the COVID – 19 crisis. The underlying concept of fair market value (FMV) is that value is determined at a point in time. The valuation process is complex and has a number of variable factors that determine FMV. However, when a valuation is being performed for certain purposes, such as for family law, the valuation date it is not variable and is dictated by the courts. For example, the valuation date for family law purposes is usually the date of separation. Why is this such an important issue when talking about COVID – 19? As mentioned, FMV is determined at a point in time. When we determine value, our valuation standards say, we can only consider information and facts that were known or knowable at the valuation date. So, the question is, at what point in time did COVID -19 become […]
CLEAN BREAK: Supporting your relationship during Covid-19
6 May 2020
Our guest today is Katie Cassidy, a Registered Psychotherapist from the Kemptville Stress Relief Centre, and she’s with us to sit down and share what she is seeing as a therapist through Covid-19, and provides some advice to couples that may be experiencing some difficulties while isolating at home. You can find Katie among other practitioners at the Kemptville Stress Relief Centrewww.compassionatesupport.ca | 613-868-9642 | info@compassionatesupport.ca Socials: Facebook | InstagramThey are offering video and phone sessions during Covid. Find your support during your divorce here at DivorceNet. You can search our professionals by location or category here. Find us on the socials:Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: Confronting grey divorce with Vickie Townson
29 April 2020
Vickie Townson from Life’s New Chapter Coaching is on the Clean Break Podcast today to chat about grey divorce, how to work through a mid-life divorce and how a coach can help you through this difficult time. Find Vickie Townson at www.lifesnewchapter.com You can find more divorce professionals here on www.divorcenet.ca Click our socials:www.facebook.com/divorcenetwww.linkedin.com/company/divorcenetwww.facebook.com/divorcenet ** Listener discretion advised, audio is low in some parts of this audio clip
CLEAN BREAK: The importance of self-defence
22 April 2020
Rob & Beth Andress from Street Safe Self Defence Training sit down with Daren Givoque and Tina Murray about self-defence, making sure you are ready for anything and protecting yourself if you are ever put into a position of surprise. Stree Safe Self Defence Traininghttps://streetsafeselfdefence.com/https://www.facebook.com/streetsafeselfdefencetraining Find Daren, Tina and other divorce professionals here on www.divorcenet.caMeet us on the socials!FacebookInstagramLinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: Real Estate during COVID-19
15 April 2020
Clean Break hosts Daren Givoque and Tina Murray talk with Wendy Embleton from EXIT Reality about buying and selling your home during COVID-19, the way the transactions have changed and how to navigate the market during this crisis. Divorce during this time is tough, and selling your home will be a challenge. Know that EXIT Realty will work with you to make your transaction the smoothest possible by providing the best support they can provide while buying or selling your home. It’s a good time to buy and a great time to sell! EXIT Realty https://exitrealty.com/ 613-215-0825info@exitrealtybydesign.com Connect with other professionals here on DivorceNet.ca. Click HERE to find your professional today. Come join us on the socials! Facebook www.facebook.com/DivorceNetInstagram www.instagram.com/DivorceNetLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/DivorceNet
CLEAN BREAK: Helping you budget your money during a crisis
8 April 2020
Daren Givoque and Tina Murray sit down with Pamela George, Financial Literacy, to talk about thinking about an emergency fund, setting up a budget for the next 90 days, concentrating on the essentials (food, bills, etc). Connect with Pamela and get a FREE financial counselling session http://www.PamelaGeorgeFinancialLiteracy.com/ admin@pamelageorgefinancialliteracy.com (613) 407-1478. You can also find Pamela on Facebook * * * Connect with your divorce professionals here.Link up on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn
CLEAN BREAK: How to manage our emotions and mental health under a crisis
1 April 2020
Clean Break hosts Daren & Tina welcome Jackie Schoemaker Holmes, PhD to the podcast today! Jackie focuses on helping women and mothers to reclaim their time, helping them prioritize and recentre themselves in their lives. Life hasn’t stopped is Covid-19 hit the world, so how do we cope with what is happening among everything else in your life? Jackie touches on ways to help hold on to ourselves, recognize we will go to the worst-case scenario and most importantly, recognize that we are grieving and how to deal with that. She reminds us to allow yourself space and room to breath. What do we need? Comfort. Connection. Treat yourself as you are deserving of this! Jackie dives into how to help yourself heal through, tools to help stay strong and manage your personal events while facing the challenges of this world right now and all the emotions that go with it. Thank you to Jackie Schoemaker Holmes for joining us on the Clean Break Podcast. Find her on Facebook, her website and Instagram!
5 tips for co-parenting through COVID-19
1 April 2020
Co-parenting with your ex can be stressful at the best of times, especially if you don’t particularly get along. The COVID-19 pandemic has caused many parents to wonder what the protocol is if they share parenting with their ex or if they have a specified parenting schedule. Should you children really be travelling between two households? Do court ordered obligations need to be upheld? What if you feel like your co-parent isn’t taking the proper precautions when it comes to isolation and social distancing? Here are the top five things to keep in mind while you are trying to navigate how to co-parent with your ex through the COVID-19 pandemic. Meet court-ordered obligations In a March 24, 2020 ruling an Ontario judge determined that in most cases court-ordered parenting arrangements must be upheld. This means that both parents should still have parenting time with their children and they can move between households while taking the proper precautions. This is because the court views access with both parents as paramount to a child’s health and wellbeing. That being said parenting time may be disrupted if one parent has to self-isolate due to travel, person illness or exposure to illness. Also, if […]
How a cohabitation agreement can help protect your assets
25 March 2020
Many people who have been divorced these days go on to remarry. While some remain cautious about entering into a new serious relationship, others may have the view that, this time around, they have found the perfect partner and they don’t need to protect themselves from the possibility of the relationship ending. Regardless of how you might feel it is always a good idea to have a cohabitation agreement when entering into a new serious relationship. If you plan on getting married it is also important to redo your will as marriage will make your current will null and void. If you die and you haven’t made a new will reflecting your current wishes your estate will be divided between your new spouse and any children you may have, regardless of what your previous will said. Wills and cohabitation agreements may seem like very separate documents, but they can actually work together to make sure you’re your estate is distributed according to your wishes. This is especially important if you have kids from a previous marriage who you would like to benefit from your estate. It is possible to make a will “in contemplation of marriage” to a new specified […]
How to build your social life and find support after divorce
11 March 2020
Getting a divorce can be very isolating and lonely. Not only are you loosing someone who you thought would be your lifelong partner, but your entire social group may change as well. Friends who you made as a couple may choose sides or keep their distance because they are unsure how to be close with you now that you aren’t with your ex. Children may be uprooted which means you may be home alone more than your would like. While all these situations are common for divorced people, it doesn’t mean it isn’t hard. As humans we are hard wired to be social and going through something like a divorce can completely shift the paradigm of your social life. Here are some ways you can find support through this difficult time and start to build a new social life for yourself that does not involve your ex. Join a support group This is often a difficult step for people to take because it involves being very vulnerable. However, finding a divorce support group can be a great way to meet people and get support at the same time. Nothing fosters connection like shared experience and that is exactly what support […]
CLEAN BREAK: Change your thoughts, change your world!
4 March 2020
Cindy Little joins hosts Daren Givoque & Tina Murray to chat about how important self-care is, especially through separation and divorce. Sleep, getting away from distractions and the benefits of working out to help supercharge your body are just a few topics to help nurture your body. Cindy Little from Health 2 Wealth educates people on healthier alternatives to youthful ageing, weight maintenance, nutritionally dense products, while potentially providing an additional income stream on the side just by sharing one’s results. Find out more about Cindy and others who can help you through a divorce right here on www.divorcenet.ca Health 2 Wealthhttps://www.facebook.com/health2wealthisagenixhttp://health2wealth.ca/
CLEAN BREAK: Programs to help you get prep’d for Divorce Court
26 February 2020
Hosts Daren Givoque and Tina Murray sit down with Pennsylvania attorney & divorce coach, Anthony Bompiani and to break down some great programs that Anthony offers to individuals going through a divorce, personal experience and his path to becoming a coach and how he can help getting ready for court and more! Anthony has years of experience both professionally and personally to help you get prepared for divorce, offering a program to review the 4 areas to master when you are heading to court. He also touches on his personalized program, Failure to Freedom. Stay tuned to learn more! Are you in the Pennsylvania area? Find Anthony at www.anthonybompiani.com Find your Divorce Team here at divorcenet.ca by heading to our Professionals List to seek out Divorce Professionals in your area! Not sure where to start? Email us at info@divorcenet.ca and we can help connect you with the right professional. Connect with us online!www.facebook.com/divorcenetwww.instagram.com/divorcenetwww.linkedin/company/divorcenet
5 tips for cohabiting during divorce/separation
26 February 2020
Living together during the divorce/separation process is far from ideal, but it is something that many couples are doing for many reasons. Maybe you need the money from the sale of the matrimonial home to afford two residences. Maybe you want to wait until after a special event like a birthday or the holidays to tell your children that one of you is moving out. Whatever the reason it is possible to survive. Here are 5 things to keep in mind that will help you get through this trying time, no matter how impossible it may seem. Set ground rules It may seem strange, but you want to look at your ex-spouse as a new roommate. Sit down and set some ground rules about things like where you will be sleeping, what possessions are off limits and who gets the TV when. Another thing to consider is what to do with family meals. Will you be continuing to eat together or, if you have kids, will you alternate days eating with them. Laying out clear living arrangements and boundaries will make sure that that the two of you can successfully cohabitate until one or both of you can get your […]
How to find the right divorce lawyer for you
12 February 2020
There are many people that you need to have in your corner while going through divorce. Legal support is something you will want to consider early as a good lawyer will be able to walk you through divorce process and prepare you for what to expect. Choosing lawyer is a very personal decision and finding the right one can depend on a number of factors. Here are some things to keep in mind as you are deciding who is going to represent and support you through your divorce. Decide what type of divorce you want (or need) These days there are many types of divorce processes and lawyers that specialize in each one. Do you want to use mediation, litigation or collaborative or cooperative divorce? Once you figure out what process is most likely going to work for you, then you can find a lawyer that specializes in handling those types of cases. You have to match the lawyer with the process otherwise you may not be happy with the end result. Figure out your budget There is no way around it. Lawyers can be expensive. But not everyone needs a $500/hour elite law firm lawyer. If your case is […]
5 questions to ask yourself before bringing up divorce
22 January 2020
If you are going through a particularly rocky phase in your relationship it is not uncommon for the thought of divorce to creep in. No one enjoys feeling at odds with their partner and, depending on the situation, divorce may seem like an easy way out. It’s not. Divorces can be long, drawn out and complicated not to mention emotionally draining. Here are some of the key questions you need to ask yourself before bringing up the “D” word with your spouse. Why do you feel like you want to end the marriage? What is your unhappiness with your marriage based on? Is it due to something your spouse did or didn’t do or is it more that you are looking for something in a life partner that he/she is unable to provide? Taking some time to think about this will make sure you are sure about your decision to bring up divorce with your partner. Have I done my part to try and fix the situation? It takes two to tango and sometimes people start throwing around the idea of divorce without taking responsibility for their role in the unhappy marriage. Take a good look at your own actions […]
CLEAN BREAK: Cohabitation Agreement and the challenges that can/came up
15 January 2020
Recently divorced, Tina’s good friend Jen joins us to talk about her cohabitation prenup, the process and difficulties that can come up through her divorce. Tina brings up the hard questions… what went wrong? For more information about the Divorce Professionals in your area, please check your divorce professionals here on the DivorceNet website!! Find us on the social! www.facebook.com/divorcenetwww.instagram.com/divorcenet www.linkedin.com/company/divorcenet
CLEAN BREAK: How to set up a ‘Spending Plan’ and help budget your way through a divorce
8 January 2020
Darren Ladouceur with us from Sunlife Financial today! We talk about the bones of financial planning around divorce and the holidays. Budgeting is scary, we hate it but it’s a bit different during the divorce. Especially during the holidays! Darren checks in on how to help you set up a ‘spending plan’ and breaks it down. Daren, Tina and Darren touch on automated saves, budgeting while going through a divorce, setting goals and how to save yourself from financial challenges. Don’t forget, eat the elephant one bite at a time. Find Darren and other professionals to help you through divorce right here on the DivorceNet website! Join us on the social! www.facebook.com/divorcenetwww.instagram.com/divorcenetwww.linkedin.com/company/divorcenet
5 Powerful New Years Resolutions For Divorced People
8 January 2020
The new year is a time to look towards the future and many people mark the occasion by making new years resolutions. If you are going through a divorce or separation the holidays were likely a very challenging time and it can be difficult to look towards the future. However, with the right attitude, you can make some valuable new years resolutions that will help you start the new year on the right foot. Here are five examples of new years resolutions that will help you move past your divorce and build a new life for yourself. Practice forgiveness Forgiveness is a key component for moving on after divorce. Resolve to forgive your ex for the pain they caused you both during your marriage and the divorce process. Hanging on to anger and resentment will only cause you more pain, especially if you have to stay in contact with them for the children. It is also important to forgive yourself. You may have done some things throughout your marriage or divorce that you aren’t proud of. Practicing forgiveness is a key component in healing and will help you move forward and be a much better person in the long run. […]
CLEAN BREAK: Handling the stresses of the holidays
18 December 2019
Thank you to Shulamit Ber Levtov from Kemptville Stress Relief Centre for joining us on the Clean Break Podcast to chat about the HUGE stresses of the holidays, some tools to navigate the complex relationships and how to handle the busy time of the year! Daren Givoque & Tina Murray host the Clean Break Podcast every Wednesday at 3:00pm and touch on the sensitive topics of divorce, tools and professionals to help you through it and local businesses to help you along this difficult path. Check out Shulamit & her team:www.compassionatesupport.cawww.facebook.com/KemptvilleStressReliefwww.instagram.com/StressReliefCentre
Debunking common myths about premarital agreements
19 November 2019
It’s true. Premarital or cohabitation agreements are not an easy topic to bring up with your partner, especially if you have recently been engaged and are soon looking forward to declaring your love for one other in front of all your family and friends. Most people don’t like the idea of accounting for the possibility of a separation or divorce at the start of a new relationship or a marriage. That’s understandable. However, separation occurs when the parties choose to separate but also when one of the partners dies. Considering the statistics, there is a strong chance that a separation will occur at some point even prior to the death of one of you. For married couples in Ontario, the law provides that the value of all kinds of property that was acquired by a spouse during the marriage, and still exists at separation, must be divided equally. There are a few exceptions to this rule, which includes gifts or inheritances, but only if they did not contribute to the purchase of or a mortgage against a matrimonial home. The rules regarding the division of property for unmarried spouses after separation is less clear but there can be obligations, […]
Co-parenting after divorce
15 November 2019
What’s the point of having a co-operative parenting relationship with your ex? And how can you co-parent successfully after divorce? Did you know that kids whose divorced parents have a cooperative relationship: Feel secureBenefit from the consistency Better understand problem solvingHave a healthy example to follow Are mentally and emotionally healthier than kids whose divorced parents don’t co-operate? It’s true! And it is arguably just as beneficial, if not more so, for kids to have co-operatively parenting divorced parents as it is for them to have parents who stay together although they are unhappy and actively fighting. Here are some tips for successful, co-operative parenting: 1. Successful co-parenting means that your own emotions must take a back seat to the needs of your children. It’s often easier said than done to keep your emotions about your ex to yourself, as you probably know, so get counselling and get it fast if you’re having a hard time. If you can get clear or at least get heard about all the things you’re feeling—and it’s OK if there’s a lot, that’s to be expected—it can be easier to keep your cool when your ex does the same old stupid stuff. Having a time and […]
CLEAN BREAK: Salt Therapy when you need it most
30 October 2019
Stress from a divorce can pop up in different forms. Saltastic can provide relief in so many different ways. This salt therapy can help with skin conditions, sinus difficulty, and inflammation as an example. Come visit Karen at Saltastic to have a walkthrough and see how Saltastic can help you today! Saltastic – www.saltastic.ca Join Daren & Tina on the Clean Break Podcast and other Divorce Professionals in your area at www.divorcenet.ca Click the link below to listen to this great podcast! https://anchor.fm/cleanbreak/episodes/The-benefits-of-salt-therapy-through-a-divorce-e9fbb4
CLEAN BREAK: Healing from heartbreak, mired in scandal and illicitly involved with a married man (Author)
23 October 2019
CJ Butler joins us on the Clean Break Podcast to chat about her new book, “The Japson Club”. Join us to learn a bit more about this woman healing from a terrible relationship escaping to Rosemount Equestrian Club and finding herself wrapped up in much more than she anticipated! Pick up The Japson Club on Amazon at https://www.amazon.ca/s?k=The+Japson+Club&i=digital-text&ref=nb_sb_noss_2 Healing from heartbreak, mired in scandal and illicitly involved with a married man by Clean BreakCJ Butler joins us on the Clean Break Podcast to chat about her new book, “The Japson Club”. Join us to learn a bit more about this woman healing from a terrible relationship escaping to Rosemount Equestrian Club and finding herself wrapped up in much more than she anticipated!
CLEAN BREAK: Helping you move with J9 Moves You
9 October 2019
Janine Falk and Catherine Humphreys from J9 Moves You joins Daren Givoque and Tina Murray to talk about helping people move from your home to another place. You may be busy, have kids, not time and that’s where J9 comes in to help. J9 Moves You helps with getting your house set up for sale, helps with fixing it up, setting it up for showings and helps work with moving you. They can assist in packing, moving and even unpacking with a dedicated team to help you through the whole process. Get ready to sell, move you and set you up all with J9 Moves You! by Clean BreakJanine Falk and Catherine Humphreys from J9 Moves You joins Daren Givoque and Tina Murray to talk about helping people move from your home to another place. You may be busy, have kids, not time and that’s where J9 comes in to help.
CLEAN BREAK: The benefits of hiring a stager to sell your home
2 October 2019
Daniela Pluviati Staging and Design sits down with Daren Givoque and Tina Murray to talk about the benefits of hiring a stager, especially during a difficult time. Daniela even dips into some tips on how to stage your home the right way so you can find the right buyer. Find Daniela Pluviati Staging and Design at https://danielapluviati.com/ The benefits of hiring a home stager while you sell your home so you don’t stress during that time! by Clean BreakDaniela Pluviati Staging and Design sits down with Daren Givoque and Tina Murray to talk about the benefits of hiring a stager, especially during a difficult time. Daniela even dips into some tips on how to stage your home the right way so you can find the right buyer.
CLEAN BREAK: Eating on the go and staying healthy during a divorce
25 September 2019
Healthy, planned snacks for on the go. Digestion and how to feed your body through a stressful time including foods to help you through anxiety. Listen in to hear more from Carol Pillar of Wholesum Approach chatting with Daren Givoque & Tina Murray about keeping healthy during divorce! Planning & eating on the go, and staying healthy during divorce. by Clean BreakHealthy, planned snacks for on the go. Digestion and how to feed your body through a stressful time including foods to help you through anxiety. Listen in to hear more from Carol Pillar of Wholesum Approach chatting with Daren Givoque & Tina Murray about keeping healthy during divorce!
CLEAN BREAK: Taking a lower income job, ‘I’ll make you sell the house’, and ‘I want a Mediator and you want a lawyer!’
18 September 2019
Daren Givoque and Tina Murray sit down with Jim Jeffcott and open up with some great questions! What happens with one spouse takes a job of a lower salary? What happens when one spouse syas ‘I’m going to make you sell the house’? Can you keep your spouse out of the house during the divorce? Can you have one spouse want to use a mediator and the other want to use a lawyer? Episode 33 – Taking a lower income job, I’ll making you sell the house, and I want a Mediator and you want a lawyer! by Clean BreakDaren Givoque and Tina Murray sit down with Jim Jeffcott and open up with some great questions! What happens with one spouse takes a job of a lower salary? What happens when one spouse syas ‘I’m going to make you sell the house’? Can you keep your spouse out of the house during the divorce? Episode 33: https://anchor.fm/dashboard/episode/e5epq7
Looking after your fitness post-divorce
16 September 2019
Going through separation and divorce can wreak havoc on your health. Sleep, eating processes and stress all play a factor in weight gain or loss. As a result, emotional, mental and physical ailments may crop up. Today I want to address a few questions that can help you transport yourself safely, and healthily through this transition in life. When it comes to your daily nutrition would you agree it can be challenging to get in all the nutrients you need? Would say you eat at least 3 meals a day? Do you eat a minimum of 2-3 snacks? How many of you have an idea of how many calories to consume daily based on your level of activity and occupation? If you have a weight goal it may be helpful to know how much you are consuming on a daily basis in term of calories, carbs, fats and proteins. One of the easiest tools that I have found is using the My Fitness Pal app or fitday.com. If you log your food there, it will show you clearly how much fat, protein, carbs and calories you eat daily. Generally, it is not a good idea to go below 1200 calories […]
CLEAN BREAK: Who gets the divorce bill?
11 September 2019
In this week’s episode of Clean Break, Daren GIvoque and Tina Murray chat with Jim Jeffcott about the cost associated with divorce, collaborative law and if the other spouse can be placed with the ‘divorce bill’. Find more information about Jim Jeffcott and other DivorceNet Divorce Professionals at www.divorcenet.ca, providing expert advise in the Ottawa and greater Ottawa areas. Drop in our social mediawww.facebook.com/divorcenet | www.instagram.com/divorcenet Episode 32 – Jim Jeffcott and the costs associated with divorce
How to help your relationship recover after an affair: for the unfaithful spouse
22 August 2019
The most important aspect of any intimate relationship is trust. When you’ve agreed to be exclusive, intimate partners, there are assumptions that govern that relationship. Two of the most common assumptions are that you won’t have sex with other people, and you won’t be emotionally intimate–giving and receiving emotional support and comfort—with other people the same way you are with your exclusive partner. Also, when you cheat on your partner, you lie by omission as well as commission. In other words, you may lie, but you may also leave things unsaid. Trust is what’s lost and trust is what has to be rebuilt. 1) Secrecy has undermined the relationship, so tell the truth. The relationship will be better off in the long run when you reveal the full extent of the situation up front. The slow revealing of one aspect after another, one thing at a time, amounts to repeated hits on an already shaky or non-existent foundation of trust. 2) Be willing to take the heat. If you want to repair the relationship, you will need to be understanding and accepting of your partner’s anger, and of their fears. When they are angry, validate that. You can say things […]
Create your Vision Board
15 August 2019
Divorce is a huge life transition. It can be difficult to envision what your life will be like without your ex once the divorce is finalized. What are your goals, hopes and dreams for the future? How can you make them happen? A vision board is a great way to transform your dreams into reality. When you constantly see your aspirations in front of you, it’s a reminder of what you will achieve with all your hard work. Even if arts and crafts aren’t your jam, there are some big steps you can take to visualize your dreams without breaking out the scissors and glue. Choose a medium, then follow these tips for your vision board and bring your dreams to life! What is a vision board? A vision board is a collection of pictures, images and affirmations that depict your dreams and desires. It is designed to serve as a source of inspiration and motivation to move towards your goals. A good vision board could show your: dream job, dream vacation, family goals, career goals, personal aspirations or health and exercise goals. How does it work? Actively seeing these dreams is a regular reminder of what you are working […]
Who pays for debt incurred post-separation?
31 July 2019
What happens if your ex goes into debt after your separate? The answer may seem simple. The person who incurred the debt should pay for it. However, in certain jurisdictions it is not so straight forward. In an article in Financial Post Toronto Lawyer Adam N. Black explains how a couple in Alberta got into a lengthy court battle after the husband racked up $115,000 worth of debt during their 6-year separation before the divorce was finalized. In most provinces assets and liabilities are divided as of the separation date. However, under Alberta’s Matrimonial Property Act they are divided as of the date of the trial. The husband relied on Alberta’s laws to support his argument that his ex should pay half of the $115,000 worth of line of credit and credit card debt he had racked up over their lengthy separation. At trial the judged agreed with him and ordered the wife to pay her ex over $400,000, an amount that included half of his debt incurred post separation. Understandably the wife appealed the decision. In the appeal the wife argued that because her ex-husband could not provide any reason for the debt (as he could have easily met […]
Helping kids deal with stress after divorce – video
18 July 2019
Shulamit Ber Levtov gives some helpful advice about how to help kids deal with their emotions and stress after Divorce.
How do I find myself again after divorce?
17 July 2019
Divorce is disruptive to every part of life. It is emotionall, physically and financially draining and it is not uncommon for a person to come out the other side of the process unsure of how to move forward. It can be a challenge to find your footing again after divorce. But it is possible. Abandon the “shoulds” The first step is to release all judgement about how you should or shouldn’t feel. Maybe you feel like you should feel relieved that it is all over. You might also think you should feel excited for the future now that the significant hurdle of divorce is in the past. The reality is there isn’t one way to feel about the prospect of moving on from your divorce. You might feel excited and happy, but you might also feel anxious and scared at the prospect of beginning what is inevitably a new phase of your life. All emotions are valid in this deeply personal process. Meet yourself where you are at and tell yourself it is OK. There are no timelines to the process of healing and “shoulding” on yourself is not going to make it any easier. Allow yourself time to reflect […]
CLEAN BREAK: Mortgages and Divorce with Chad Robinson
10 July 2019
Clean Beak hosts Tina Murray and Deron Givoque sit down with mortgage and real estate broker Chad Robinson to answer all the burning questions when it comes to mortgages and divorce!
Can I move with my children after divorce?
10 July 2019
Moving is a very common part of divorce. Often a matrimonial home must be sold as part of the settlement and both parties need to decide on another place to live. This can be complicated especially if kids are involved. What if one party wants to move to a completely different city? Is that possible with children in the picture? The short answer is yes. But it can be complicated. If you are the sole guardian of the children, have sole custody or if there is a written agreement or court order permitting you to move without the other parent’s consent it is definitely possible. However, if you have joint custody of the children there is a lot more that needs to be considered. Relocation disputes Relocation disputes can be extremely difficult and costly and unsurprisingly the issue has generated a lot of case law across Canada. If at all possible it is best to avoid them. It is always best to talk about your relocation plans with your ex before finalizing them. Providing plenty of notice might stop your ex from filing an urgent court application to keep you from moving. Communication is key because more often than not […]
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